The Mindful Midlife Mom - Mindfulness Practices and Techniques for Mentally Exhausted Moms Juggling Kids & Aging Parents

122 | Taking Care of Difficult Aging Parents: Mindfulness for Midlife Moms in the Sandwich Generation

Episode 122

When your parent changes—and feels like a stranger—your love can still anchor you. Watching an aging parent morph into someone unrecognizable—angry, combative, or emotionally distant—can feel like you're losing them while they're still here. This episode offers solace, tools, and heart to help you meet them where they are—and rediscover your strength in caregiving.

In this episode, you’ll find:

  • Validation for how devastating personality changes can be in a parent you once knew intimately


  • A shift: instead of defending the past, use your energy to advocate for who they are today


  • A set of practical advocacy strategies—from observing triggers and calm cues to partnering with care teams so they respond to the current version of your parent


  • A powerful guided affirmation to reinforce your unwavering commitment:

“Their personality may have changed, but my love and commitment to their care will never waver.”

This episode gently invites you to shift from emotional overwhelm to empowered advocacy—mindful, present, and rooted in love.

You’re listening to the right show, formerly known as the Mindful Life Changes or Mindful Career Change Podcast. We’ve made some pivots through the years, but we’ve finally landed on the right path: producing content for moms seeking calm within the chaos of midlife changes.

New episodes drop on:

  • Sundays: 20-minute episodes addressing common midlife challenges with practical strategies plus a featured mindfulness practice (affirmations, mantras, or meditations)
  • Wednesdays: Short guided practice sessions to reinforce Sunday's mindfulness technique and reset your week

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This podcast explores patience, meditation, confidence, presence, and overcoming resentment while cultivating calm, peace, mindfulness, clarity, mantras, and addressing loneliness and burn out; it covers boundaries, caregiving, guilt, affirmations, working moms, self-care, midlife crisis, empty nesters, empowerment, people pleasing, compassion fatigue, family caregiving, stress relief, self-worth, stress management, and how to shift from reactive to centered when feeling short tempered, offering tools for self acceptance, easing mental exhaustion, building emotional resilience, harnessing inner strength, and preventing caregiver fatigue for those in the sandwich generation through expert advice on boundaries setting.

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